Some posters on this forum have at least a thousand movies and THOUSANDS of TV show episodes, and I have yet to hear of anyone reaching the database storage limit. Remember, the database probably doesn't have to store that much information - some general movie or episode data plus the file location and format. I don't think you will have a problem.
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